A mistake that I did, was that I though I'm going to marry my fiance, not her family. The jokes about mothers in law are quite popular over here. But when I hear them now, they have a bitter flavour. I told my mother in law that I would marry her doughter regardless of who her parents were. Strangly for me, she took that as an offence. I would like to explain how she took it, but I really don't understand it.

I had a good job, car, I do not drink, I do not smoke. I was ready to live on my own. We knew each other for over 3 years - that's what I though. It was not true: I expected her not to change. She did. She on the other hand expected that I'll change. And I didn't.

I was ready to dedicate everything to the familly. Time, money, effort, relationships. But it did not work, because I'm a geek. I'm too much self confident. I don't care what other people say about me. If you don't like me, don't bother me and I'll not bother you. I do not expect much and I'm content with a little.

I believe that I what you feel for each other matters, and that's all that matters. It can be true for you, but it does not have to be. Take care.

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